If your loved one has a love language that doesn’t mesh well with yours. Ex. Someone who doesn’t like to be touched is with a physical love language partner.
Personally if I was the non physical partner. I would wear something (maybe a bracelet) that could depict whether I was touched out or not. Obviously I would communicate it too but that would be a simple way for my partner to visually understand that.
I’m very physical though so this one is my true opinion. If my partner was a touch me not. I would try to subtly coerce them into becoming less of a touch me not. Over time I would make light touches and comforting embraces so that they aren’t overwhelmed nor agitated with the caresses.
How would YOU meet them in the middle. Give me both views or your own personal view